Everybody needs sleep, but especially moms! Are you pregnant or do you have a brand new baby? Wondering how to get more sleep with a newborn? We've got a few ideas up our sleeve.
Some solutions for how to get more sleep with a newborn are simple and require only small amounts of effort on your part, but can yield you precious minutes of the shut-eye you're craving.
Keep Mom Calm
The sound of a baby crying in the middle of the night isn't exactly what we could call relaxing. For new parents, the sound of a newborn's cry can be stressful, and when you're on a lather/rinse/repeat cycle all night long with a newborn, that stress can make it hard to fall asleep again. Staying as calm as possible during night wakings will help you get back to sleep more quickly, which turns into more rest for you.
One easy way to stay calm is to let go of any expectations you have about sleep for your newborn and adopt a more "roll with it" approach. You can certainly create routines and habits for your baby to encourage sleep, but it takes time for newborns to develop sleep patterns. Take deep breaths. Remind yourself that this is temporary. Have your partner take over if things feel like too much. It's small, but it adds up.
The more you and baby have to move around at night for feedings, diaper changes, and soothing back to sleep, the more you send the signal, "It's time to wake up!" You can combat this by consolidating all of your nighttime necessities into one place.
If your baby is still sleeping in your room, find a dim nightlight and make a space for middle-of-the-night diaper changes.
If you are breastfeeding, try nursing in the side lying position (more rest for you!) and then moving your baby back to the bassinet or crib. Consider making yourself a basket that has snacks and water for when nighttime hunger strikes.
If you are bottle feeding, you can move your bottle warmer and a small cooler with the night's bottles so that you can warm the bottle while you change your baby's diaper. Minimizing movement during night wakings will help you take care of business so you can get back to the business of sleeping soundly.
Call in Reinforcements: The Postpartum Doula
Sometimes, you need to call in reinforcements for nighttime sleep. Don't worry, we've got it covered! If you want to get some sleep knowing that someone is there to care for YOU as much they are to care for your baby, an overnight postpartum doula does just that. Our doulas are trained in normal postpartum recovery and are well-versed in baby care, so you can sleep more soundly knowing that your family is in expert hands. If you're breastfeeding, we'll bring the baby to you to nurse, then quickly take them away for everything else so you can go right back to sleep, or we can give a bottle of pumped milk if you prefer. Everything we do goes through the filter of, "What does mom need right now?" Bonus: You might even wake up to clean dishes, a folded load of laundry, and a hot cup of coffee!